If you have a school-going child when going through a divorce, it can be beneficial if the school is aware of what’s happening. This way, it can support your child. Moreover, you may need to change emergency contact information and details about who will be dropping off or picking up your child.
Here is what to keep in mind concerning talking to your child’s school about your divorce:
Talk to your child first
You should inform your child about your plan to inform the school about the divorce, especially if they are older. You want to involve them in the conversation. Some children, especially teenagers, may feel blindsided if their parents talk to their school before giving them a heads-up.
Do it soon
The chances of the divorce affecting your child in school can be high. They may isolate themselves, get lower grades or have behavioral issues. Thus, consider talking to the school before these happen.
Let your child’s teachers make early arrangements to support your child to avoid cases of them not doing homework or being involved in a disciplinary issue.
Be brief
Your child’s school only needs to know you are going through a divorce and the information that will change. You don’t need to give them too many details. If possible, you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse should send a joint message.
Further, decide who should receive the message. You can send it to the school principal, your child’s classroom teacher, and the school’s guidance counselor. However, the principal or classroom teacher may share the information with other staff involved in your child’s daily activities.
Your child’s school should know their parents are going through a divorce. Obtain more information to make other decisions in your child’s best interests.